Tips for some ways to spend time with children that will make them obey you

 

Nowadays, all the parents seem to complain that we used to respect our parents so much, we used to listen to them, but today's new generation has become very spoiled and they have forgotten to respect their parents. Neither obey nor respect but have you ever tried to know the reason? Have you ever wondered what your parents gave you that you didn't pass on to your children? My kids don't listen to me, some ways to spend time with kids that will make them obey you.

Difference between parents of today and parents of the past.

Today's parents claim that we have given our children everything we did not get from our parents. During our time we didn't eat from hotels except during the Eid festival, today we feed our child pizza and burgers from outside every week. We used to walk miles to school, today a van picks up the children from the door and drops them off at the door. Despite giving all the facilities, children are not ready to accept our kindness-

The fact is that today's parents have given material facilities to their children, but they have forgotten to give one important thing which they have also lacked and that is time - today's parents have their children. There is no time to spend time together and even if there is time by mistake, children are lost in their phones, and parents are lost in their phones.

Some ways to spend time with children

 

Today we will tell you some ways to spend time with children. Now we will tell you some ways that will reduce the distance between you and your children and bring them closer to you-

Talk to children about their school and friends.

Children usually have lots of stories to tell after coming home from school. Listening to these stories will not only keep you aware of their routine, but in this way, the child will also start to consider you as his friend.

Don't just listen, but also tell.

Tell children stories about your life and your childhood, this way the child will not only get to know you but also start learning from your experiences-

Listen but don't advise.

Even at this age, if your close friends give you advice all the time, you become distant from them.  Children follow your instructions every time only if they feel that you always tell them important things. So try to focus on the really important things.

Do something new with the kids.

Children are very interested in learning new things and bond with a person who shares the adventure with them. So instead of terrorizing the child all the time, be a part of their mischief. Do something new with them and teach them something new.

Ask the children questions that they can answer in ways other than yes or no.

One of the best communication skills with children is to ask questions that they can answer with more than yes or no so that they can speak their hearts out.

Conclusion.

After adopting these methods, you will feel that the children will not only come closer to you, but they will also start respecting you along obeying you.